Private Coaching

You've built a life that works.
It just doesn't feel like yours.

Six months of private coaching for accomplished women who are done trading their aliveness for achievement. Sharp leadership coaching and embodied work rooted in Tantric philosophy, woven together. No woo required.

An honest conversation about where you are and what you want.

Bring the real you.

The approach

You've already tried being disciplined about it

You noticed the exhaustion. Of course you did. You notice everything.

So you handled it the way you handle everything else. You blocked off an afternoon. You downloaded the meditation app. You told your partner you'd be "better about weekends." You bought the ashwaganda. 

It helped for about four days.

Then the quarter got even busier, someone needed something, and you were back at your laptop at 9:47 p.m. answering an email that could have waited until morning. You knew it could wait. You answered it anyway.

You understand the pattern. You can explain exactly why you overwork, over-give, and talk yourself out of what you want. But understanding it still hasn't changed what you do in the moment.

That's where we work.

This is the engine of the work.
It's grounded, practical, and more fun than you're used to.

That fun isn't a bonus feature.
It's the reason the change happens faster and sticks.

Power: Take Yourself Back

Power isn't control, dominance, or white-knuckling. It's self-ownership. It means knowing what you want, choosing it, and having your own back when things get uncomfortable.

This is where the leadership coaching lives. We work on how you communicate, negotiate, manage up, set boundaries, and take up space in rooms that weren't built for you. You stop waiting for your boss, your partner, or the system to change first. You stop explaining and justifying, and you start leading.

It's radical responsibility without the self-blame. Not "it's your fault." Just "it's your move."

Pleasure: Fuel, not a Reward

You've been treating pleasure like the gold star you earn after finishing everything. You will never finish everything. So the gold star never comes.

Here, pleasure is fuel. In plain terms, feeling good tells your nervous system it's safe to stop bracing. When your body stops bracing, energy comes back, and so do focus, creativity, and desire.

Pleasure is also a lie detector. Your body knows you're abandoning yourself long before your mind will admit it. Learn to read that signal, and your yes gets clearer, your no gets cleaner, and your sex life stops being a to-do item.

This isn't about spa days. It's about actually tasting your coffee, feeling your own skin, and wanting things again without apologizing.

Play: The Secret Weapon

Play swaps shame for curiosity, perfectionism for experiments, and "what's wrong with me" for "huh, interesting." It keeps your inner critic from turning your growth into another job.

And yes, it belongs at work. When you treat your career like a game you're skilled at, the brutal meeting becomes a level to clear. The tough negotiation becomes a match worth playing. Work can be fun again. It can even be a little hot, when you're leading from desire instead of fear.

We move through three phases.

What's included

  • 18 private coaching sessions. One 60-minute session a week, with a week off each month to integrate. Focused on what's actually happening in your life.

  • Support between sessions. Text, email, and voice memo support for the moments that can’t wait until your next call

  • Real-life practice and integration. Specific conversations, experiments, and leadership skills to take into your week, reviewed and refined together.

  • A curated practice library. Guided practices and meditations to support the work. Selected support, not another course to finish.

  • Two custom guided audio practices recorded for you around the themes and intentions we're working with. Can include movement, somatic embodiment, meditation, or yoga nidra, depending on what works for you.

The Investment

$1,000 per month for six months

$6,000 total, or $5,700 if you pay in full.

Many of my clients use their employer's professional development budget. I'm happy to provide an invoice and any documentation you need.

If you've spent years or real money on insight that never quite turned into change, this is the work that turns it into action. I work with only a small number of private clients at a time, so spots are limited.

The consult is complimentary: 60 minutes to see whether we're a fit, with no obligation.

Is this for you?

  • This is for you if:

    • You're accomplished, and lately the cost feels too high: you're tired, over-giving, and editing yourself.

    • You've done the therapy and the reading, and you understand your patterns. You want help changing them in real moments.

    • You want a coach who understands your work life and is also unafraid of your body, your desire, and your intuition.

    • You're willing to try things in the real world between sessions.

  • This probably isn't for you if:

    • You want a confidence checklist or someone to tell you what to do. Your life stays yours.

    • You're looking for mental health treatment. Coaching isn't that, but the two can work beautifully together.

    • You're not ready to try anything new yet. That's okay. The free challenge is a gentle place to start.

What clients say

FAQ

Are you ready to stop postponing truly living?